I've often had customers ask me about “living funerals”.  This is an event where a person (usually terminally ill), attends a service which celebrates his or her life, and allows them to socialize with their loved ones while they are still living.  The event is sometimes called a “life celebration” or a “living funeral or memorial” that focuses on honoring the person’s life, and not focusing on death. Family and friends gather and usually there is a “ceremony” that honors the person's life and achievements.  Many friends and family members speak, and tell stories of the memories of that person.  It is a beautiful event when done properly.

There really aren’t any clear cut rules for planning living funerals or memorials.  If you are considering having a service of this type, try to get a feel for how the honoree would react to such a service.  Ask other family members whether they will be comfortable with this kind of event.  Many family members may be reluctant to have a service like this because they fear it gives the impression that they have “given up hope” and are  “anticipating their loved one's demise.

When my father was diagnosed with terminal cancer, I decided that a family reunion was long overdue.  My dad had 12 brothers and sisters, so this was a huge undertaking.  I let everyone know that his cancer was terminal, so almost everyone rearranged their schedule to attend.  During the event, I set aside about 30 minutes to have a ceremony to honor my dad’s life, with all of his family members present.  It was an AMAZING event.   The “family reunion”  was my dad’s “living funeral”.  It was the best thing I could have ever done!  When my dad passed, not even 4 months later, he left this earth knowing how many people loved him.  He was able to get his “flowers while he was living”.  We also recorded the service, so my mother was able to watch video and remember my dad with his friends and family after he passed.

If you have a loved one who is terminally ill in your family, consider planning an event where that person can see all of his friends and family.  If you are uncomfortable with the term “living funeral or memorial”, then call the service by another name.  If there is an upcoming birthday,  anniversary or any other event where friends and family can attend, then plan a “living memorial” during that celebration.  Read a life sketch, show a photo slide show, play music, have friends tell of memories and and read poems.  Honor your loved one before he or she dies.  You will be glad you did!
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Elegant Memorials would like wish all a Happy Thanksgiving.  We realize that many of you are experiencing a loss during this holiday season.  Our condolences go out to you.  We hope that in the midst of your funeral planning, you can take a moment to think about the things that you are thankful for in your life.  If you are going through a difficult time due to the loss of a loved one, look to your friends and family for support.

Save your work.  This is the most common issue when using funeral program templates. Most customers are under a tremendous amount of stress when they order a funeral program template.  They are grieving, and there are many, many tasks to accomplish during this time of loss. Many users will download the template, open it, and get started creating there beautiful funeral program. Then, of course, something will interrupt them. The phone will ring, they will switch to email, or step away from the computer to take care of something.  Low and behold they can't find their last batch of edits. So, after downloading your funeral program template, use these tips to ensure you don't lose your hard work:

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